I think people in our society, adults more than the younger generation, are a bit sexually frustrated. Anything regarding sex makes things uncomfortable as though its something unnatural. and they project this frustration onto their children. Sex is a very natural thing, and we need to have sexual relations if we want to stay healthy and more importantly mature. I'm not saying you should jump on any woman that passes by, don't get me wrong. But we all have needs. You shouldn't not have sex with someone you love just because its frowned upon by our closed minded society. Lebanese guys are actually encouraged to have sex before marriage, so why can't girls? Personally speaking, i really don't care if the girl I'm dating is not a virgin, on the contrary, i think its a plus because at least she would be experienced and we wouldn't have a completely bad time on our first night. And all the guys that break up with their women when they find out that they are deflowered should go jump off a bridge or something.
Girls in the lebanese society are raised with the idea that virginity is something sacred, that it shouldn't be given to anyone but your spouse. And i agree to some extent; your virginity, wether you're a man or a woman, is something special. your first time will always be special to you. But that doesn't mean you should hold off on having sex because you're not married, because that would be ridiculous. What if you never get married? Are you supposed to live out the rest of your days with a spider web between your thighs? Whenever you feel comfortable with yourself and your sexuality, thats when you have sex. it shouldn't be premature, none should force you to do it, and none should keep you from doing it either.
I'd like to end this blogpost by saying that the virgins of the world are diminishing. and to all the women who are "saving" it for marriage, get your mind out of the gutters and go get some experience before you embarrass yourself on your wedding night.
Girls in the lebanese society are raised with the idea that virginity is something sacred, that it shouldn't be given to anyone but your spouse. And i agree to some extent; your virginity, wether you're a man or a woman, is something special. your first time will always be special to you. But that doesn't mean you should hold off on having sex because you're not married, because that would be ridiculous. What if you never get married? Are you supposed to live out the rest of your days with a spider web between your thighs? Whenever you feel comfortable with yourself and your sexuality, thats when you have sex. it shouldn't be premature, none should force you to do it, and none should keep you from doing it either.
I'd like to end this blogpost by saying that the virgins of the world are diminishing. and to all the women who are "saving" it for marriage, get your mind out of the gutters and go get some experience before you embarrass yourself on your wedding night.
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